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core discipline are too stringent, kids are prone to passive and not enough discipline, kids are prone to attack. Most parents did not want to see a very passive child, do not want to attack a strong child. So, how can a good grasp of this degree?
By these manifestations of the child’s, to determine whether the parents discipline through strict
1. Children too clever, too quiet or children not to express negative emotions.
2 children for a very minor criticism would show extremely sensitive.
3 children will not escapades to detect your bottom line.
4 children without a sense of humor or happiness.
5 children often show irritability and disturbed.
6. Children eat, sleep or go to the toilet to show the pressure, for example, children may exhibit behavioral characteristics of the past infancy.
7. An offensive children may learn your behavior to vent their anger, his brothers and sisters, companions or pets.
If your child’s performance over three, or only one or two, but often, and the performance is very obvious, parents should reflect on their own parenting style.
Discipline their children properly, we can do
At different stages of child growth and development of different means of discipline. For infants and young children, to try to shift his other activities. For more than a two-year-old children, the discipline must meet the explain (but not excuse) his “mistake” to try to find the reasons of child aggressive behavior, give him the opportunity to learn about or understand their own behavior.
The discipline
* must be suitable for the child’s temperament. If a sensitive child to be punished will be very desperate, but for a positive and cheerful child, punishment might be a suitable method.
* When the children together with other children, try not to intervene. Avoid the presence of other children to protect or punish their children. When you volume in children between the battles in this state, at least your child half of the behavior is directed at you.
To child behavioral demonstration. Example to the children to help him learn to control their behavior or learn in different situations in different ways to deal with. Direct, strict but loving approach is a means of demonstration.
* When necessary, can use the short-term confinement, embrace after the end of the child and explain why it is necessary to give him.
Corporal punishment
*, give children the wrong message, let the children feel that you lost control and demonstrated the offensive. Corporal punishment not only does not respect the child, in very young children will not play any role.
* When a discipline means no matter when, stopping to re-evaluate their own use – your reaction is not too frequent? Too ineffective? Children’s aggressive behavior is telling you he is very anxious, he could not control their emotions or he needs your love?
* In the discipline after the hug a child, let the children feel your love. Do this difficult, but it is very important. When you hold the child’s need to tell him you’re sorry and told him very difficult to learn to control their own behavior. He must know you are very concerned about him.
(Editor: Wang Yulian)
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